An intimacy coordinator has dished on the weirdest questions Hollywood’s actors have asked her while filming a sex scene – including where to shave, how much tongue to use and what to do if they get aroused.
Jessica Steinrock, 29, from Illinois, took to TikTok to reveal the common question she’s been asked by actors as an intimacy coach.
The sex scene consultant regularly shares how the actors get down and dirty to her over 400,000 followers and reveals her trade secrets while keeping the performers dignity in tact off-screen.
Jessica Steinrock, an intimacy coordinator from Illinois, dished on the weirdest questions Hollywood’s actors have asked her while filming a sex scene
The sex scene consultant regularly shares how the actors get down and dirty to her over 400,000 followers and reveals her trade secrets
In one video, Jessica revealed the burning questions actors posed before they stripped down; she revealed actors asked about hiding their tampon strings and how many times to thrust
The most risky job in Hollywood! What are intimacy coordinators and what do they do?
- According to SAG-AFTRA, an intimacy coach is an advocate and liaison between actors and the movie or TV show’s production team
- They also help to choreograph scenes that include nudity, simulated sex and other intimate scenes
- An intimacy coach helps to ensure actors are respected, safe and comfortable during hyper-exposed scenes
- Intimacy coordinators are most common in films and TV shows where sexuality, sex scenes and sexual violence are prevalent
In one video, which racked up over 5.5 million views, Jessica could be seen dancing while revealing the burning actors posed questions before they stripped down.
The video includes questions like: ‘Will you make sure my tampon string isn’t in the shot? How much tongue should I use? What happens if I get aroused? and Does my breathe smell?’
Jessica’s first video received so much attention, followers begged her for more, so she created a part two of the things actors have asked while filming a sex scene.
Her second video, which racked up over 500,000 views revealed Hollywood’s stars have asked her to make sure their butt ‘looks good’ and what do if they’ve never kissed anyone.
She also revealed performers have asked her for more Chapstick and even questioned what to do if they’re ‘modesty pouch fell off.’
Jessica shared a modesty pouch is a garment that covers the penis, allowing actors to stay covered while appearing naked, Jessica revealed the illusion is formed when the camera shoots ‘really low,’ showing a ‘touch of pubic hair.’
The sex scene coordinator followed up her second video with a third video dishing the questions actors have asked her, this one gaining nearly 600,000 views.
The sex scene consultant shared other common questions actors have posed before getting down and dirty including if their breath smelled and what to do if they get aroused
Her other videos revealed actors have also asked her where and if they need to shave for the sex scene; she added that Hollywood’s stars have asked her to make sure their butt de ella ‘looks good’
To explain how sex scenes look real she showed her bag which included a strapless thong; the intimacy coach added she keeps a modesty pouch in her bag to help actors cover up
The top 10 questions Hollywood’s stars have asked the sex scene consultant
- ‘Will you make sure my tampon string isn’t in the shot?’
- ‘How much tongue should I use?’
- ‘What happens if I get aroused?’
- ‘Does my breathe smell?’
- ‘I’m on my period.. is that going to affect anything?’
- ‘I’m allergic to most deodorants.. help?’
- ‘Do I need to shave for this stick?’
- ‘How many thrusts do they need for this shot?’
- ‘Can you make sure my butt looks good in this scene?’
- ‘I’ve never kissed anyone…is it easy?’
In her third video Jessica shared actors have asked her if their period will affect the scene, what to do if they’re ‘allergic to deodorant,’ if they need to shave and how many ‘thrusts’ they have to do for the scene.
The sex scene consultant has helped Hollywood’s finest become more comfortable when filming intimate scenes in both TV and film.
Jessica’s work has included popular TV series Fear of the Walking Dead, Never Have I Ever and Little Fires Everywhere. Jessica has also worked on films YellowJackets and Moxie.
According to SAG-AFTRA, an intimacy coach is an advocate and liaison between actors and production, while also helping to choreograph scenes that include nudity, simulated sex and other intimate scenes.
An intimacy coach helps to ensure actors are respected, safe and comfortable during hyper-exposed scenes
Intimacy coordinators are most common in films and TV shows where sexuality, sex scenes and sexual violence are prevalent
The intimacy coordinator’s TikTok page answers the question of how sex scenes are filmed to look so real.
To explain how film crews make the sex scenes look real, Jessica showed her followers her very own work bag which she refers to as ‘modesty pouch,’ which includes various items used to uphold an actor’s modesty.
Jessica showed off nipple covers, multiple rolls of tape, a strapless thong, a modesty pouch and a pubic wig.
Shocked TikTok users loved Jessica’s content and many wondered how she dealt with men getting aroused, while others thanked her for sharing
In the comments section Jessica added: ‘I love it when actors ask me questions! There’s nothing to weird or out there to ask if it’s going to help them do their job better.’
Shocked TikTok users loved Jessica’s content and many wondered how she dealt with men getting aroused, which she revealed was by just allowing the actors to ‘take a break,’ while others thanked her for sharing her trade secrets.
One user said: ‘You have this energy about you and I would absolutely trust you with my life.’
‘Well what happens if they do get…’ asked another user.
Another user commented: ‘These videos are so interesting to learn, but your personality phenomenal!’
‘I want to know how these scenes are filmed,’ commented another user.